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To have and to hurt : recognizing and changing, or escaping, patterns of abuse in intimate relationships
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- ISBN: 9780275997212 (electronic bk.)
- ISBN: 0275997219 (electronic bk.)
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xviii, 236 pages : illustrations ; 25 cm - Publisher: Westport, Conn. : Praeger Publishers, 2007.
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| Bibliography, etc. Note: | Includes bibliographical references (pages [227]-230) and index. |
| Formatted Contents Note: | To have and to hurt -- Bleeding eye story -- Getting at intent -- Getting at consent -- Power differential story -- Sharing the precious time of one's life -- Is cherish just a word-for a trade? -- Vow story -- Individual identity and the wedding vow -- Meet the intimate partner -- Anatomy of the bond -- Mixed messages story -- Watching for signs -- No idea story -- Why denial? -- What strength story -- The complex matter of emotional abuse -- Compromise and trade (C&T) abuse -- Power structure story -- Defining stress, trouble, abuse, and violence in relationships -- Who could ask for more story -- When the person abusing feels abused -- Unusually aggressive story -- addressing denial and problem patterns -- Numb to pain story -- Hollowing to patterns -- Dangerous denial story -- Patterns of abuse and violence in relationships -- This time story -- Pattern addictions to what we call love can control us -- Compulsion obsession story -- Emotional sadomasochism -- Gilded cage story -- The brutal fiduciary -- Fiduciary story -- Violence and abused-related trauma -- Altered state, violence, and weapon story -- Acknowledge long-term effects -- After the fact story -- Note about child witness fallout -- House cleaning story -- Knowing when to get out story -- How you know your skin's too tight -- Breaking through the problem pattern -- Seeing the troubled couple -- Rising above violence -- Wise elder plan for troubled couple -- Coming back from intimate partner abuse and violence -- The force of love -- Epilogue: motherhood, life, and violence. |
| Reproduction Note: | Electronic reproduction. Boulder, Colo. : NetLibrary, 2008. Available via World Wide Web. Access may be limited to NetLibrary affiliated libraries. |
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| Subject: | Marital violence |
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