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¡Hola Papi! : how to come out in a Walmart parking lot and other life lessons / John Paul Brammer.
The popular LGBTQ advice columnist and writer presents a memoir-in-essays chronicling his journey growing up as a queer, mixed-race kid in America's heartland to becoming the "Chicano Carrie Bradshaw" of his generation.
The first time someone called Brammer "Papi" was on the gay hookup app Grindr. At first he took this as white-guy speak for "hey, handsome." What started as a racialized moniker given to him on the hookup app soon became the inspiration for his now wildly popular advice column. Here Brammer shares his story of growing up biracial and in the closet in America's heartland, while attempting to answer some of life's toughest questions. This book is for anyone-- gay, straight, and everything in between-- who has ever taken stock of their unique place in the world. -- adapted from jacket
Record details
- ISBN: 9781982141493
- ISBN: 1982141492
- Physical Description: 212 pages ; 22 cm
- Edition: First Simon & Schuster hardcover edition.
- Publisher: New York, NY : Simon & Schuster, 2021.
Content descriptions
| Formatted Contents Note: | How to answer a letter, part 1 -- How to lose a rabbit -- How to kiss your girlfriend -- How to be a real Mexican -- How to come out to your boyfriend in a Walmart parking lot -- How to fall in and out of love -- How to chat with your childhood bully over a gay dating app -- How to describe a dick -- How to dress yourself in silks and linens -- How to disagree with who you used to be -- How to decide who to be -- How to spend the night -- How to see a comet in a room full of strangers -- How to answer a letter, part 2. |
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| Genre: | Audiobooks. Autobiographies. Biographies. Autobiographies. Essays. Anecdotes. Humor. Biographies. |
Available copies
- 13 of 14 copies available at Evergreen Indiana.
Holds
- 0 current holds with 14 total copies.
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| Location | Call Number / Copy Notes | Barcode | Shelving Location | Status | Due Date |
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| Hussey-Mayfield Mem. PL - Whitestown | B BRAMMER, JOHN BRAMMER (Text) | 33946004569641 | Adult Biographies | Display | - |
| Hussey-Mayfield Mem. PL - Zionsville | B BRAMMER, JOHN BRAMMER (Text) | 33946003981839 | Adult Biographies | Available | - |
| Jackson Co PL - Seymour Main Library | B BRAMMER, JOHN PAUL (Text) | 37500004771974 | Biographies | Available | - |
| Jefferson Co PL - Madison Main Branch | 921 BRAM (Text) | 39391007050501 | Nonfiction | Available | - |
| Monticello-Union Twp PL - Monticello | NF SOC. SCI. LGBTQ+ BRAMMER (Text) | 37743002341111 | NF SOCIAL SCIENCE | Available | - |
| New Castle-Henry County PL - New Castle | 306.766 BRAM (Text) | 39231033817970 | Adult Non-fiction Collection | Available | - |
| Newburgh Chandler PL - Bell Road Library | 306.766 BRAMMER (Text) | 39206021706955 | NonFiction | Available | - |
| North Madison Co PL - Elwood PL | 306.766 BRA (Text) | 30419101530286 | New Non-Fiction | Available | - |
| Plainfield-Guilford Twp PL - Plainfield | 818.607 Brammer (Text) | 31208913264216 | non-fiction | Available | - |
| Porter County PL - Portage Public Library | 306.766092 BRAMM (Text) | 33410017187008 | Adult Nonfiction | Checked out | 04/30/2024 |
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