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Constructive wallowing : how to beat bad feelings by letting yourself have them / Tina Gilbertson.

Gilbertson, Tina, (author.).
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  • 1 of 1 copy available at Evergreen Indiana.

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Adams PL Sys. - Decatur Branch 152.4 GIL CON (Text) 34207001908798 Adult Non-Fiction Available -

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  • ISBN: 9781936740802 (alk. paper)
  • Physical Description: xxxix, 252 pages ; 21 cm
  • Edition: First edition.
  • Publisher: Berkeley, California : Viva Editions, [2014]

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Bibliography, etc. Note:
Includes bibliographical references and indexes.
Formatted Contents Note:
Part I: Dip your toe in the water -- Part II: Dive in -- Part III: Float like a butterfly.
Summary, etc.:
Actress-turned-therapist, Tina Gilbertson, offers a practical and effective alternative to kicking yourself when you're down in this book. "Constructive Wallowing" will not only help you reach your potential but also will help you heal from past hurts and feel better about yourself, right this minute. It is tempting to turn away from menacing, uncomfortable feelings like anger, grief or regret and treat them like unwanted guests. However, ignoring them just seems to make them stick around. By learning to accept, rather than suppress, difficult feelings, you'll gain greater self-understanding for lifelong emotional health.
Subject: Emotions.
Self-help techniques.

  • Baker & Taylor
    Presents advice for dealing with self-critical thoughts and negative emotions about the past, along with techniques for developing self-compassion and a more positive outlook.
  • Perseus Publishing

    "Constructive wallowing" seems like an oxymoron. Constructive is a good thing, but wallowing is bad. Right?

    But wait a minute; is it really so terrible to give ourselves a time-out to feel our feelings? Or is it possible that wallowing is an act of loving kindness, right when we need it most?

    Almost everyone loves the idea of self-compassion -- the notion that maybe in spite of our messy emotions and questionable behavior, we really aren't all that bad. In recent years there's been an explosion of books that encourage readers to stop beating themselves up for being human, which is terrific. Unfortunately, readers who aren't interested in Buddhism or meditation have been left out in the cold.

    Constructive Wallowing is the first book to cut right to the chase, bypassing descriptions of Eastern philosophy and meditation techniques to teach readers how to accept and feel their feelings with self-compassion for greater emotional health.

    It's tempting to turn away from menacing, uncomfortable feelings like anger, grief, or regret; however, ignoring them just seems to make them stick around. By learning to accept and embrace, difficult feelings, readers keep their sense of personal power and gain greater understanding and ultimately esteem for themselves.

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